Sunday, June 8, 2008

On lending a helping hand

Every now and then there are mails floating around asking the receiver to forward the mail to others as that would lead to the service provider paying up anywhere between 1 paise to 1 cent for every forward. This money in turn would help some poor soul to afford a terrible sickness. Today I got one such mail:
IIT Bombay student Anupam Biswas 5th sem. Mechanical Engg is suffering from Colukabki (caused due to excessive nabad and depression) a disease very rarely found (3 in a billion). His condition is very pathetic and the treatment is very expensive, obviously his parents are not able to afford his treatment. Orkut has agreed to pay 1 paisa after each time this message is forward. So please pass to all ur friends. please i request you to pass it to as many people as u can and lets try to save someone's life. I request please do not ignore this. It will take......
It made me wonder about a few things:
1. How naive can a person get!!! Colukabki ?????? nabad??????? Unimaginably random names.. Google is just a click away, it will take a second to know that there is NO ailment by that name.
2. What kind of people can start such sick chains! There will be many who would be forced to mistrust even a genuine mail.
3. There is a VERY small part, almost an appendix in us which wants us to help other human beings, someone in need, but there is a bigger larger sense that prevails and wants most of us to chill and relax and do our work, sit in our tight loop of what we call our lives. Unless it involves sending a mail [without even thinking twice of its implications] or writing a blog about the poor, most of us just pass. And though there is a struggle inside which really wants us to do something make some change somewhere, ultimately our better sense prevails... And we pass... and that.. sadly is what I have been doing....

I am reminded of MG... [http://www.noragging.com/], amazing to see someone doing his bit to bring about a change that can effect somebody's life in his busy schedule of work... hats off to you MG....

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Just FYI...nabad is IITB lingo for nervous breakdown.......this particular mail you quoted was just a joke......no sick intention

Fasihullah said...

@anonymous
I am not saying that this particular mail had a sick intention, but look at the after effects, someone might think that a serious mail is also a joke. That was what I was trying to say, nothing more. One should be careful about jokes, they work well with friends but generally does not work well with unknown people.

Who is this by the way?

A said...

Yeah I agree...and don't like these kind of mails anymore. But I feel maybe few of them could be genuine and they may be missed out...that would be sick on our part.

There can be, however, innovative ways/initiatives where each one of us can contribute, exactly the way it suits/fits us...just that we need hunt for one that just clicks...isn't it. I believe that, for the minimum.